Our World of Fantasy

I'm a good boy, she's a good girl

2009-03-07T23:07:00.001+08:00

Yes I think I'm a good boy. I did household chores on friday, with the mindset that I an relieve dear dear from doing anything over the weekend which we always do. Great! Now we can fully enjoy our weekend! Dear Dear's a good girl also. she had started picking up cooking and she's doing great! Think she would be agreat mother and wife! Lov ya! Lots!
KG

Happy Valentine's Day!

2009-02-14T09:24:00.002+08:00

My poor darling had been very busy at work these days, after our honeymoon. Thus, he had to 'put me plane' almost everyday these wk. haha the funny thing is , i waited for him everyday after work from city hall, to jurong pt, then ended up at home! He's still not able to come home! hahah! A bit disappointed .. esp yesterday we were planning to do so many things, like shopping for my new hp, getting our house phone, catching a movie etc.. But in the end.. he couldnt leave early and i ended up spending my friday nite at home wif my cup noodle..

I know he felt very guilty too. But Darling, wanna assure u that I am not angry at all.. mayb jus abit sianz la.. but i can totally understand ur jobscope. I know u r working hard for our better future and fulfilling all my dreams. It's so hard on u. But I will always support u n believe in u and everything tt u do! Dont get despair or fedup wif work k.. Face it with joy and faith and take every challenge as a new opportunity that will move u to another new high level! I will always pray and cheer for u.

To me, frankly, V day is just another commercialised day when roses and dinners escalated their prices like mad. I dun need all these 'for-the-moment' things at all.. I m much happier when our love and understanding strengthens day by day. I am touched and thankful for ur little acts of love daily. I think these go far more than the lavish celebration on V day! I love u Darling! Jia you k! Lastly, happy V day and many many great & loving years ahead for us!

With all of my love,
Your wife.

What a hectic week!

2009-02-14T00:47:00.002+08:00

This week was simply terrible. I counted. 70+ hours spent at work! I thank God for such an understanding wife when she waited patiently at home for me. Love you Dear Dear! I feel so blessed and at the same time apologetic for making you wait. So pai sey. Anyway today's Valentine's Day! Happy Valentine! YOu are also my Valentine! Love ya so much!
KG

2009-01-16T20:46:00.002+08:00

I just wanna be stronger and healthier. I cherish my life and every moment.

Poor wife

2009-01-15T20:21:00.002+08:00

My poor wife is sick. Cough. She's in such pain I feel so bad for her. Heart pain. I really pray that she can be well again so that we can prep for our Japan trip next week and enjoy the start of our new life tog. Poor thing that she had to stay at home for her birthday and eat my lousy steak. Hai. Next year, you will have a better celebration ok?
KG

Happy Birthday to ME

2009-01-14T09:21:00.002+08:00

Today is my hatch day, but i m sick today!! Gotta forgo the supposedly birthday lunch today cos I m really too sick to leave home today.. fever, cough, sore throat.. everything comes tog.. makes me sianzzz!! sick at the start of the yr is bad enough, let alone sick on my birthday! argghh!!.. Thinking positively, mayb after today, i will have a good year ahead.. healthy and strong! haha gonna pray more for good health and better body, physically n spiritually, less or even no more mc this yr! I wan to be healthy!!!!! I must restore my immune system! Eat healthily, sleep early.. blah blah...

Oh forgot to give darling a word of praise.. darling is soooo sweet lor.. i was sick these few days, and he is the one making sure that i m fully covered and if i kick my blanket away at nite, he makes sure he put it back on me again. haha i m surprised how light a sleeper he is! i tot his eyes were closed and he's sleeping! oh oh, n he prepares honey water for me yesterday before he leaves for wk before me. In fact, he had been helping me refill my water bottle every morning, making sure i bring this n that for work.. haha sooo 'motherly'!I love him la! haha another v funny thing is, he wanna give me a surprise by order flowers to be delivered to my ofc today.. haha.. but i gave him a bigger surprise! haha by being sick n taking mc n stay at home.. now, he's trying to arrange the flowers to be delivered to our place. so funny! he always try to give me surprise but always FAILED!!! cos he got a wife cleverer than him! hahahah=)

Tt's all for now, happy bday to me! Have a great yr ahead!

Cheers,
Birthday gal for today

The GREAT Housewife

2009-01-11T13:22:00.003+08:00

My wife is becoming the Great Housewife. Today my friends came over, Jinyi, Hai Liang, Ben Chiek and Gf and Jun Wei and gf. My wife really played a good host to them. She's like a "real" housewife! We had a game of Wii and really had fun. Food and drink was served by her and when Jing Jing said she's hungry she even cooked instant noodle for her! Thanks so much Dear Dear! I can never thank you enough. Ben even said she's such a good host! I'm really blessed.

KG

As a man...

2009-01-06T23:37:00.003+08:00

As a man of the family, I sometimes feel its so difficult. Everything is about money. I wanted to have so much, for my family, my wife, future children, so many dreams unfulfiled. Can I just live on hope alone? Work, yes I have a career, but how far can that get me? Living month to month on a fixed salary, I wanted more. I put in my effort, sleepless nights, I can't say its a sacrifice cos I'm willing. God, show me the way, show me the money! Why don't you end my agony and rain down fortune instead? Like it will happen... Ah. Enough complain. Now to go back to my "night shift".

可爱的太太

2009-01-06T21:34:00.002+08:00

my cute wife did something for me. She secretly invited my friends, 2 buddies and their gf to karaoke and surprised me as a birthday surprise! I'm already 27 and still had a birthday surprise. Ha! She acted quite well and bluffed me that we are going for karaoke session. I was totally unaware along the way. I trusted her too much!

The room was quite dark and I thought we are in the wrong room and there were "malays" inside! How silly of me! 太可爱了！受不了。不能不爱。I'm so bless with such a good wife. Some more her parents gave me an ang bao. Then she got jealous cos she doesn't get such a big one herself! Ha. So 可爱呐!生气时也超可爱！

爱死你了！

KG

Happy birthday!

2009-01-04T23:50:00.003+08:00

5th Jan is Darling's birthday. As it falls on a Monday, I decided to celebrate with him during the weekend and this is the first year we celebrate together in the name of husband and wife. So I decide to do something special that will put a smile on his face. hehe got 2 of his buddies with their gfs to give him a surprise. I know he's very happy cos he thanked me more than once after that! hehe .. I know he's very touched and happy of wat I had arranged for him! This is the first time I do such thing for him and being ME, i really put in alot of effort trying to keep it a secret from him! hahah it's so difficult!!! But anywae, I made it!=)

Darling is 27 after today. For a married man, 27 is considered young. Looking back at all the moments spent wif him, all the bday celebrations we had during the past 3 .5 yrs, I cant help but keep smiling. All these bring back sweet memories. Wanna thank Darling for being so sweet and nice to me all the time. For this new yr ahead, I pray that our Heavenly Father can annoint him with so much knowledge and wisdom in his career and dream. Let him see his visions and dreams and let these come to pass. I pray that his dreams to succeed and prosper will be so possible and will turn true with JEsus in the center of our life. Let him be the head and not the tail, let him have the ability and power to lead the family. Let him have more than abundance in every aspect of life. I pray and pray also for favour of man, in his work and personal life. Amen.

Darling, I just wanna let you know. I am more than ready to fight all battles of life with u going forward and face all the ups and downs together with you. No matter where you go, I will follow. I believe in you, in your visions. I know u will turn all dreams and words to actions. I know you will succeed. You will have all my support. Thanks for loving me for who I am. I love u. Happy birthday, my dearest hubby Darling. May all ur dreams come true. This year will be the best year ever, Amen?=)

With Lots of Love,
ur one and only fan=)

Goodbye 2008! Welcome 2009~

2009-01-01T15:17:00.002+08:00

wooo.. 1 yr just came n gone so fast!Today is the 1st day of a whole new yr! An eventful 2008 for me, so many BIG events happening in 2008- I got a memorable n fun wedding on 27th Dec, first time experiencing the impact of recession, have a home of my very own blah blah...But i know 2009 will be a better yr for me! I am gonna welcome 2009 with a BIG BANG! i got so many plans and resolution for 2009~

1) Have a car of our own
2) Travel to countries of my desire
3) Learn to play Tennis
4) Go skating and cycling at least once a month
5) Eat more healthily to strengthen my body, ie cut down junk food and eat more fruits and nutritious meals
6) Learn to bake cheese cake
7) Learn to cook decent meals for hubby =P
8) Take up CPA and self-improvement
9) Start my saving plan
10)More discipline in my quiet time
11) Less TV and more rest

I pray that my 2009 will be a shining and fantastic one! 2009, Im coming~~~~!!!

Mrs Ong =P

Missing my baby....

2008-09-21T20:37:00.002+08:00

My baby darling is away in the sea again and it's on a Sunday! Sob sob.. been v long that he can go service tog with me liaoz.. Maybe cos my parents just left for China this morning, i felt abit lost today.. dunno wat to do. cos usually sundays will be spents with either darling or family. Today felt abit lonely w/o them. Haiz.. i still need abit of time to learn to be independent w/o darling over wkends.

Nevertheless, I got a fun saturday with darling. He surprised me at east coast on fri after my company's charity event. He came with a Nissan sunny. haha i was surprised! He actually rented this car just to surprise me! haha ok la, i m really surprised. So with this car, we started our day at geylang for the popular 'yong he' dou hua and mee sua. Next we went to choose our wedding photos. Guess wat, we spent 6.5 hrs at the bridal shop, just for the photos selection! Was so tired after that. But, the photos really pleased us. hehe at least we r both pretty bride and handsome groom haha.. cant wait to get the albums soon!=P

After that, Darling actually wanted to surprise me with the DHL hot air balloon, but as we were both very tired and hungry, we decided to head for mellben CRABS at AMK! hehe Damn shiok man, we had 2 crabs-the famous bee hoon crabs and the creamy butter crab! Decided to give my parents a treat there after they are back!

Ok, tt's all folks! Now cant wait for darling to be back... I guess distance really makes a heart grow fonder.haha..

The Day of all Smiles!

2008-09-09T21:37:00.002+08:00

Yes! The day finally arrived that we are able to go for our wedding photoshoot. All week long we see the weather not very favourable, raining intermittently and not much of sunshine. So we've been praying hard for good weather and indeed, God is good. We were very excited as we've planned for this a long time, close to a year. All it definitely feels good to have it fulfilled!
We arrived at the studio at 930am, earlier than the makeup artist. Guess we were too excited. The next 1 plus hours was spent on Dear Dear. My, my wife is beautiful! Ha!
We then had the indoor shoots, changing in and out of costumes, including japanese and traditional chinese. It was sheer fun! My face was almost cramp with all the wide smiles! Ha. Working through lunch we were ready to go outdoor only at bout 4. Sure is a long day!
The outdoor location is not too far off, in a ulu ulu place in Punggol. I din even know Singapore had such places before today. Luckily, the sun's not too punishing. We had a peek at the shots and indeed I must say the photographer, Steven is good. Next destination the beach. We had the most fun here, lying in the sand, running along the beach. Makes me think of the advertisement on TV! Ha!
I'm so glad we had a fun day. Now, me and Dear dear can eat to our heart's desire. No more diet!

KG

A healthy and fun Saturday!

2008-08-31T00:41:00.002+08:00

Wow, it's been a long long time I spent such a long and fun day outside wif frens on a Saturday!

Woke up even earlier than weekdays today cos my company had teambuliding today. Was assigned to the same group as our BIG BIG BOSS. There is always this kind of 'fear' and distance between us and her, cos she's like sooooo highhhh up while we r sooo low... hahha. But to be positive, there's nothing to b afraid of, she wont bite! Surprisingly, she's q a sporting n fun person. Really enjoy such close up experience wif her. A whole new experience! Some more i gotta put my arms around her shoulder during the phototaking. hahhaahaha

We then proceed to Joyce's place for a 2-hour ping pong n badminton session. really stretched to the max! my butt and arms aching now. but it's really a great workout. Enjoy!

To reward for all our sweat and energy, we had BBQ after that and had a great time joking around. N yeah, i still cant escape myself from their suan-ing.. hehhe i shall try harder next time!

Thank God for the good weather and favor of man and all the fun and joy we had today!

Fen

Where shall we go?

2008-08-29T22:34:00.002+08:00

Have been getting excited over the honeymoon topics for the past one mth. Mayb cos my Darling always out in sea most of the time this mth, so I m too free to let my mind go wild. I had been asking my frens and colleagues of nie n interesting places to visit. Well frankly, I dun really travel for the sake of shopping. I would like to experience new things, see new things which I cant see and experience in spore. For e.g, most ppl say korea is a boring place, which i totally agree. But winter in korea is so fun and sooo nice!!! U can never see this in spore! But i guess once is enuf, i noe there are other places with greater scenery! hehe

Ok, so I was 'pestering' my darling on South Africa cos I tot it's a beautiful country wif the table mountain and game reserves. N i can have such close encounter wif the animals! But but.. my Darling dun like the idea as he kept thinking it's jus one of my stupid n crazy ideas.. AGAIN.. hmm.. n of cos, he's aso concerned about the safety issues there as the crime rate is EXTREMEly high. So after much tots, i decided to agree wif him, thou abit unwillingly, tt we r gg for a honeymoon. So it's shall be as romantic and relaxed as possible and shdnt b an adventurous trip. Ok, so after much tot, we decided to stick wif the first plan-Europe-Switzerland and Italy! hehe n we will be gg during winter.. shucks.. need to carry heavy clothings again! But ok la.. romantic enuf.. can hug hug alot cos it's gonna be cold. hahahahhah..

Looking forward to the trip! hehhe i shall start saving up now.. n there goes my plan for another coach bag. I MUST CONTROL!!!!!

Fen

BoyS Are Shy

2008-08-28T23:38:00.002+08:00

Wow been a loongggg time since the last update. Work's been really really busy. I can't imagine how I managed. Thank God My Dear Dear is so understanding!
The wedding dinner date creeps even closer and there are still a lot to be done. We were scouting for page boy and flower girl, in the end only my little cousin happily agreed. Her older brother, was simply too shy. Then we tried my wife's nephew. Same thing...Ha. Boys this days...

Next week sat is our photo shoot! Getting jittery all over now. Got to rest well and be the best on that day!

YO MY BABY!

2008-06-27T20:09:00.002+08:00

I've started calling dear dear Baby. For reasons only known to us, I've put down my pride, and most willingly. Well, as long as she's happy. "}

As we approach our 3rd year anniversary, I reflected and must say I really enjoyed the time with Baby. It is what I call experiencing life, and life with someone I love. The sun,sand and the sea! Sorry, I digressed. You get the drift?
Baby baby, I love you! Here's to many many 3 years to come!

KG

A day alone at home

2008-06-21T15:19:00.002+08:00

Yesterday was the first night spent alone at my new house. Darling was out in the sea again..was reluctant over the idea of spending the night alone in the new house cos i had never done so and i m totally not used to without Darling at home. But thinking of the tons of housework, i decided to be more'courageous'.. hehe ..

So i spend one day plus cleaning up the house, sweeping n mopping the floor, wiping the windows and mirrors, washing up the toilet and kitchen and washing the clothes.. was feeling so tired now.. spent almost an hour squatting in the toilet washing the sink, floor n toilet bowl made my back ache.. But the thought of Darling coming home wif a tidy and clean house made me determined. V happy.. Now waiting for Darling to come home! hehe Hope he can feel happy and relieved! haha at least he need not do housewk for this wk! hehehe..

Fen

The things I cherish

2008-06-13T19:30:00.002+08:00

One more nickname for me! Ha. People can be so creative with my name. At least I'll be well remembered.
I remembered Dear Dear used to give me lots and lots of funny and out-of-this-world nicks. Seriously I grew to love them. It tells me she luvs me! I'll give her some to express me love. Erhmm... 小猪猪，小芬芬，屁屁。Hope she dun get angry! Truly its all this little funny things that I cherish alot. We are almost into our 3 years anniversary! So exciting. Throughout this 2+ years there are so many moments when we are so happy together. Of cos there's frictions and argument. Who's doesn't? At least we learn to cherish each other. I love you dear dear! And I like ONG LAI.

2008-06-12T01:00:00.002+08:00

wow.. almost forgot I got a blog till my fren asked me about it recently. havent been blogging for more than 2 months.. had been really busy recently, wif work, new house and wedding preparation! Nevertheless, I am looking forward to my wedding! N my marriage life wif my ONG LAI ( haha a new name given to Mr Ong, cos my frens and colleagues find it far too challenging to rem such a unique name hehe).

Left about 6 mths to go before my wedding day! Really so excited! It's a new stage of life, new set of responsibity and from now, my life is not jus me and I. We are both accountable to each other. All the vows and promises on alter gt to be turned into actions. a promise of a lifetime.

Of course, life is never a bed of roses. Gt some disagreement wif Ong Lai on Sunday nite. N we had cold war for the next 2 days. This hurts both parties. So upset. I wont deny there's no regrets of settling down wif him when I was at that moment of anger. Thou it's jus 2 days of cold war, it did pulled me down, making me have doubts on whether he's the one for me. But on the other hand, it gave me time to cool down n reflect. I learnt to pause and reflect on my life wif him, am i being a gd wife?Why shd i persist on such a small issue? Why cant I jus let go? Have I forgotten the vows that we made at the ROM? Wats the reason that pulled us together in the first place?

I then started to realise that i had taken a lot of things for granted, took his gd side and kindness for granted and focused on his weakness. I started to set my own expectations on him. Thinking back, I m really guilty. Even Jesus didnt set unreasonable expectations on me. Who am I to do that on my beloved Darling? Realised a lot of things thru this incident. I must learn to let go.. Let Go , in order to Gain More. I already have the best ONG LAI that I can ever asked for. So patient, so understanding, so loving.. Like wat Robb Thompson said, I shd cherish wat I have instead of trying to get wat i want to have. Seriously, I would never want to give up all his strengths in exchange for the weakness he had.

I love u, ONG LAI.

Moving in..Official

2008-04-19T21:26:00.002+08:00

Tomorrow we would be officially moving in! The past 2 weeks was really quite an experience, living in our new home, cooking, cleaning up, washing the clothes..etc. All the house work, really feel like i've been doing this for a long time, although most of it is my first time. too bad dear dear can only stay during the weekend!
Tomorrow, we'll be "rolling the pineapple", cooking water over traditional stove, using charcoal...Haha! It's to bring luck to the house. Huat ah!

KG

I just wanna hold you tight!

2008-04-04T01:07:00.001+08:00

Now that we have lots of program on tv, I just want to laze around at home together with dear dear, hold her in my arms and enjoy the many many hours of tv shows. How nice! I getting more and more in love with my home and of course together with my only love, my dearest wife!
KG

TV & Internet

2008-04-01T23:59:00.002+08:00

Finally. The most anticipated items are delivered to our house. No. 1 on the list is of course the SCV cable programmes. First time I get to watch cable tv, yeah!!! Dear Dear should be the happiest on Earth for that particular moment, I think. She can just sit infront of the tv and not move out of the seat for ages! Luckily there's still some short commercial in between.
Next is the maxonline internet subscription from starhub. Finally I can serve the net in our house! Dear Dear had been especially hard working and cleaning up the house and she even said she wanted to cook! Haha! Ok ok! Let's go and get the cooker and crockeries k?

KG

Recent updates

2008-03-29T23:13:00.004+08:00

Haven been blogging recently, cos had been tied down by cleaning up of my house and gatherings wif frens. Let me recap all the happenings for the past few wks:

Been to MOS and Zouk wif Jing jing and Junwei and of course Darling. Ok, i conclude tt Zouk is definitely more fun than MOS, wif an obviously younger age grp there. A pity tt we cant go Velvet. Shall try it one day!=)
Anywae we gt great fun drinking and dancing and laughter there! haha..

Oh ya, met up wif my excolleagues for dinner before clubbing and really had a gd time catching up on one another's life.. hhehe hope we can meet soon. It had been a v v long time since we met up!Oh ya, i m determined to join u guys for gym soon!!!!=)

Also, went Pulau Ubin wif my frens (cum colleagues hehe)during Good Friday! the sun is scorching hot, sweat a lot, v smelly, v tired BUT V FUN!! Really enjoyed myself there.. Love Cycling, Love the great companion, Love the crappy jokes n laughter and all the phototaking! hahha N is a gd chance to slim down hhee.. used up a lot of strength pedalling whahaha=)

Big items moving in

2008-03-28T01:33:00.002+08:00

Today Dear Dear took leave to wait for the delivery of our tv console and also the tv cable repair man. Meantime she took the effort to clean up the whole house: mop the floor, clean the windows and endless shelves! Even her mum was surprised and called her auntie. Hah. So touched! Dear Dear you are simply wonderul! DOes it mean next time I won't need to hire a maid? Hmm... Just kidding!

KG

What?! It just rained...

2008-03-15T21:40:00.003+08:00

My dear dear has all along been a good helper and caring wife. Just today, as I left her place and heading home, it started to rain. I was thinking to myself, oh man what luck. Then immediately she called and wanted to bring an umbrella for me although I was already quite far away. Touched. It caused me to start thinking...

生命中难得有一个人肯于我共患难
是我吝啬于感激的话语
辜负了有心的人
我爱的人

Dear dear you are the bestest! It's been hard on you to be going through hardship with me. NO worries I'll love you more and more and try my bestest to bring the bestest to you!

Random thoughts

2008-03-12T23:40:00.003+08:00

Had lunch today with my buddy, n she reminded me I had a blog (which I had forgotten for a longg timeeeeeeeeeeee). Hadnt hav time to blog recently due to family n work commitments. I had not-so-gd start this yr.. Mum is sick. But still thankful for God's presence to dwell in the family and all the prayers from my beloved frens and cg. Still hoping for a miracle. I know, with God, nothing is impossible. On the other hand, i do feel blessed. Blessed cos i noe i m not alone. I gt frens n colleagues tt support me and stand by me. They try to meet up wif me when i noe i need a listening ear. Thanks so much for braving the rain jus to have lunch wif me. Thanks for the time n concern tt u guys showered on me. I m really thkful. U guys make me feel so blessed. I will be strong n be more optimistic!

Oh yah, my house is done up, and we had bought some furnitures and electronic appliance, caused us a bomb! But thks for the bonus that came at the right time and right amt! God really provides abundantly! Amen! Heheh we're so excited thru the whole process.. cos.. how many times in one's life do u move house n shop for ur own furniture n appliances? heheh Its the first time tt I can make my own decision! YEah! Hopeing to move in soon..

me n darling still as gd or even better than before! hehe really thk God for dwelling in us and makes our love stronger! both of us agree tt we begin to understand each other better! He noes me and can guess wats in my tots and my stupid plans! hehehe Love him so much! Darling, my only wish for u is to be healthy and happy and keep ur PROMISE! hehe.. rem ur goal?

Really look forward to our future together. With you, i'll never be afraid cos i noe u will hold me tight!Thanks for all ur encouragement and support in my down times and lending me ur shoulder for me to lean on n to 'bite' when i m ANGRY! Thks for being so understanding n patient wif me! I noe you dun come by chance, but it God tt bring us together as One! Hope our love can stay as strong alwayz. Love u my dearest Darling!

Fen

Next Course...

2008-02-26T23:04:00.002+08:00

I'll be attending the next course of my career in March. It'll be at SAFTI, so near my new place! I can imagine that I'll be able to jog to camp early in the morning. But I think I'll be too lazy though.
One thing is for sure. My weekends would be secured for the next 2 months and it came at a good time as we'll be busy sourcing for house furnishings. Mar and April likely there'll be bonus which again would be good timing. All things good are coming this way! Yahoo!

KG

LAst Year of ANg Bao..

2008-02-12T22:37:00.000+08:00

This is the last year that me and dear dear could collect ang bao from our relatives. NExt year, we would have to give instead! Haha. Like every other years, this Chinese New Year is quite similar, other than going to visit some of dear dear's relatives.
On the second day, we watched 2 movies, CJ7 and Ah Long PTE LTD. Both are supposed to be comedy but only the latter is funny. I think Stephen Chow is losing his funny appeals...

Not too bad, our combined ang bao money comes up to quite an amount. Now for the big purchase!

KG

Can't wait to move!

2008-02-01T23:07:00.001+08:00

Now that we got our house renovated and cleaned up, I really can't wait to get moving! Sad thing is its quite an empty house as of now as we have not started shopping for furnitures or appliances. Seems like quite a task but should be a very very enjoyable one too! NO matter, maybe I'll just get a sleeping bag and start staying over the weekend. At least when I'm tired after the cleaning up, we'll get somewhere to lie on! Ha!

KG

My New Home=)

2008-01-28T12:36:00.000+08:00

Our ID handed us our newly renovated house last friday. V happy. Immediately after that, we went to shop for all the cleaning stuff like brooms, mop to get ready for the washing up over the weekends. m satisfied wif the final product of our house. is nice! thou gt a few parts i found it q troublesome to clean.. but its our first house.. heheh i dun mind taking up more time n effort! hehe.. was really v tired after 2 days of cleaning.. n the cleaning process gt still a long way to go! Hopefully I can get used to the 'auntie' life soon!=)

Pei Fen

Korea's fun!

2008-01-23T23:39:00.000+08:00

Korea is fun! So happy!! We really enjoyed ourselves v much.. mayb cos there's great companion.. n great scenery! this is my first time experiencing winter and it's really C-O-L-D!!!! First time i feel so cold to the extent that pains my hands and feet.. but it's a whole new experience! N I am really happy that the whole tour grp is so fun! N we r still in contact and in the midst of org a gathering! Hope our frenship can really last! Look forward to the gathering! Really thank God that everything goes so smoothly and we r able to make new frens along the way! Looking forward to the next trip!=)

Post Holiday Blues

2008-01-23T21:45:00.000+08:00

WOw! A great trip to South Korea and it really invigorates me! I'm sure its the same for Dear Dear as well. Lots of interesting things done and many beautiful scenery never seen before in our lives! Too many pictures taken and the weather is wonderful...too cold sometimes. -10 degrees Celsius at the extreme! Best of all, its the first time we experience snow and skiing! All in all, South Korea is a wonderful place for a holiday and we just din get enough!
The very next day we came back, barely 6 hours later I had to sail again and it is not until yesterday that I had any genuine rest. Wheh! Its tough to arrange a holiday trip and the jobs left undone really kills. Nevertheless, it feels so good to be on holiday together with Dear Dear and really can't wait for the next trip!

KG

We are ar CHANGI AIRPORT!!

2008-01-11T23:50:00.000+08:00

We r now at changi airport using the free online access.. time now is 23.55pm.. waiting to board on korean airline at 1.20am to fly to korea!! Due to heavy snow there.. our flight was delayed for 2hrs!! hehe but we are still v excited.. first time taking aeroplane together !! Really thank God for the coming wonderful moments we gonna have there! Pray for journey mercy and safety and protection of our health and belonging and luggage! Amen!

Pei Fen

New Year Resolution

2008-01-07T21:42:00.000+08:00

Time for New Year Resolution!
1) Get fit - visit the gym once per week and gain 5 kg
2) Eat healthy, sleep healthy - min 6 hrs per day
3) Save ($) to the max!
4) Speak english. Need I say more?
5) Make Dear Dear happy

What's yours?

KG

Birthday This YEar

2008-01-07T21:25:00.000+08:00

My Birthday this year was not spent in Singapore. It was on an island, Sentosa. Dear Dear took me to Sentosa and we had quite a lot of fun. First is the sky ride followed by the luge ride. New features at the island and quite fun too! Dear Dear was quite afraid of height and did not dared to looked down during the sky ride. Haha!
Then we went for foot reflexology and the "Doc fish" where small fishes eat away at the dead skins at our feet. My fav! Last item on the list was the 3D cine blast "Log ride". Feels a bit like the one at Genting but way more realistic.
Thanks Dear Dear for a wonderful and surprising birthday celebration! Luv ya!
KG

2007: The Summary

2008-01-01T06:07:00.000+08:00

This year is a year of great changes for me and Dear Dear. FIrst and foremost, we got a home we call our own! It has been a busy year right from the time we decided to apply for the flat to the reno and it is still on-going.
Then, our wedding photo package. It's no easy feat to get one we feel comfortable with as the experience at the wedding fair is really absurd, with this studio bad-mouthing the other! It's really quite hilarious. No matter, I believe we settled on a good one we are pleased with.
Our wedding dinner would be at Orchard Hotel and really its not easy to find one to our liking. WHat's so great bout this one is we got lucky and won a free trip to South Korea! Ha!
December, I shall say is the highlight of the year. We went for our first holiday trip together! It's not far, but still quite an experience as we get to enjoy the time together in a foreign land. It's really good weather and Dear Dear said she wanted to go back again. Ha!
Then, our ROM ceremony. It was the happiest moment of my life! My friend even said he never see me smile so wide before when he saw the photos taken on that day.
I believed a good year had to end with a big bang and yes it did! With fire works! Me and Dear Dear spent the last day of the year at Mount Faber Jewel Box where we get to get real close to the fire works. IT really beautiful! Now, a toast to the end of a good year, and a better one next!

KG

Merry Xmas!!!!

2007-12-25T23:20:00.001+08:00

This year is my most 'profitable' xmas!! Above are all my xmas presents given by my dear frens, colleagues and Darling! Love the PSP from Darling! hehe it's really a surprise from him!:)

Got him a G-shock watch as he badly need a watch now.. This year, we also gt presents for our parents and his cousins! heheh we gt some tonic drinks for our mothers and a renoma wallet for my dad! hehe so happy! It's a giving season! It feels good to give!!! N i got all my wishlist come true- a nice bedroom slippers, winnie the pooh mug and harvey norman vouchers and precious moment album. N i gt a precious moment crystal ball too! So sweet! This is something that I will never buy for myself but I would love to have! hehehe So its really a SWEET DREAM COME TRUE this xmas! Looking forward to the next xmas!

Merry Xmas everyone!!!!~~~

Fen

Genting Trip 16 Dec07~ I Love THEME PARK!!!

2007-12-25T23:06:00.000+08:00

Was back from genting. The last time I went there was when I was .. hmm.. 10 yr old.. Now, Genting had changed so much!!! I dun rem there's theme park back then. But now, there is! Both indoor and outdoor! So fun!! I love Theme park! so shiok and exciting! Really enjoy my trip there!! Hope I can go back again, prob during off peak season, so that I can try ALL of the rides! Bit disappointed as it rained abit during my stay, thus cant get to play a few of the rides. Anywae this is my first time me n Darling went for a trip ever since we got tog. REm we gt together due to our trip to KL. But we were not a couple then. So yesh, Genting is our first trip tog!! Looking forward to our next trip in Jan!!! So happy!!~~~

Fen

These speak more than words!

2007-12-11T23:38:00.000+08:00

Our BIG Day!

2007-12-11T23:04:00.000+08:00

Finally its here! Our ROM ceremony to legally bind me and Dear Dear together! It was such an amazing feeling I still feel the tingling feeling and "high" right now.
First of all we went to the bridal shop to fit the dress for Dear Dear and put on makeup. Of cos the makeup's on Dear Dear lah! Ha. Jokes aside, wow, I can't believe my eyes, Dear Dear is so beautiful! Ha. At first I thought I'm marrying somebody else. Then my hair do, totally unacceptable! Ha ha! I thought it was too bombastic but anyway, I'm part of the lime light mah! Ha!
Its a rainy day and Dear Dear was quite sad as she had hoped to take lots of outdoor photos. Dun sad care! Leave the best for the real thing aka studio album. Anyway, the photographer was quite good at making our families happy with all the "say cheese" poses. The ceremony itself was quite short though. My mind just went blank for a moment ha! And I had to kiss my bride in front of so many family members! Pai seh sia!
The day ended off well with a dinner at the Dragon Gate restuarant. All's good and things can only get better and better!

KG

Our BIG Day~ 10 Dec 2007~

2007-12-11T22:24:00.000+08:00

10 Dec 2007~ A Day when Our Hearts bind and become One. Though the rain did dampen my mood, I am still happy and excited with him by my side. Happy that we had come thus far. Thank God for the ups and downs we had been thru together, which strengthen our relationship even more. I vowed that I will be submissive to my husband and cherish him with love and respect. I promised to be by his side, to support and cheer him on when he needs. I promise to love him wholeheartedly and take care of him with my best ability. From today on, we gonna walk the rest of our journey together, hand in hand. I love u!=)

Fen

2007-11-28T21:45:00.000+08:00

Finally, coloured my hair.. hehe yippie! Waiting for Darling to be back from sea, wanna show off to him! whaha=P

Season of Celebration!

2007-11-26T21:38:00.000+08:00

The end of year is just round the corner. With the usual celebrations, me and Dear Dear had our own things to celebrate about. Firstly our house. The wet work's done and finally we can start with the carpentry. Although we had some hiccups with the renovator, thank God things turned out ok. completion is delayed till Jan next year though. But no worries, it may be a good thing in disguise as it will buy us time to really decide on what we wanted.
Next, is our BIG DAY! Our ROM falls on 10 December and its really really getting near!! Really exciting! Dear Dear bought me a shirt and pants for the big day and I really think it fits well with her dress. My Dear Dear always have good taste!
Third, we are going for a holiday! Although we are not going as far as we initially planned, I believe we will still enjoy it all the same because its our very first time going overseas together and most importantly we had each other for company!! I can't wait!

KG

2007-11-25T20:30:00.001+08:00

Had been a v v hectic wk, tearing me down physically and emotionally. At work, one colleague tendered and was handing over stuff for me. After work, tight down wif decisions after decisions to be made. House renovation is in progress, hence got so many things to do, to decide. For e.g, downlights or notmal ligths, false ceiling or L box, warm or white lights. We had to think n think.. Worst still, initially i intend to take leave this coming wk to have a gd rest and settle my personal stuff. But now i couldnt even do it! I m v helpless n tired.. so many thing undone, n waiting for me to do.. but NO TIME. NO ENERGY. NO CHOICE. boss had already indirectly hinted tt i cant take leave liaoz. haiz.. i know he's in difficult situation too. But, But, But.. I felt weary..........wat shd i do? Is there a solution? Will I be less stressful soon?

Yesterday went Balestier to c all the lights.. headache.. so many lights! V guilty, threw tantrum at Darling.. Thou Darling was tired n bit unhappy too, he was still very patient wif me, explaining things to me nicely, and assuring me from time to time. I feel really touched n grateful for such a guy as my bf. Of course, there r times he does angry at my unreasonableness, but very quickly, he will comfort me n pamper me. I feel really blessed and loved. At such time when i feel so tired n helpless, he's always there protecting me and shielding me. I m really thankful for everything. Darling, i know i am q unhappy recently. But, its all cos everything comes at the same time. Work is no longer under my control. N also, with the house reno, I feel really so so tired.. U r my shelter.. Only u see the weak me. Only to u, i can break down n cry.. haiz.. But darling, its not gonna be long! I will Jia you in my work n not let u worry! hehe i m ..........GO GO POWER RANGER!!
wahahaha...

Fen

Finally Holiday is here!!

2007-11-15T21:59:00.000+08:00

Have been toking bout gg to holiday since Oct.. but me n Darling's schedules always clash.. finally managed to find a time when both of us can go holiday tog! As u guys know, we won a prize to Korea. So initially intended to go in Dec.. BUT the air tickets r all sold out! Kaoz.. Dec is a HOT season for holis man! So pls pls avoid DEC!! Everything is ex Ex EX!! wah say.. n since its sold out .. we decided to postpone to Jan.o we r still gg after all! n we r gg to experience winter! yippie!! First time!! So excited!

But since we already took leave in Dec, so had decided to go to a short trip instead! hehe so happy man! gg holi !! hehe Finally!!

Fen

Dream House in the making!!-Part 1

2007-11-15T21:47:00.000+08:00

After 2 wks plus of layering of the floor tiles, it's finally done!! We chose a beige colour for our floor tiles. Frens told me white is nicer but harder to maintain.. thus, we decided on the beige after much consideration. Happy!! Feel very satisfied wif the results. But i am v impatient, i hope the end products will be ready soon. hehe oh, n we bought the air con from IMM.. 4 aircons in our 4 rooms = S$2,600 ++. V reasonable price and strongly recommended by most of my frens. Satisfied! hehe oh yah, decided not to put aircon in my living room.. cos it needs 2 mpore aircon.. too costly.. not worthy. hehe this saturday gonna choose the colour of my walls and buy accessories. Gonna spend $$ again! But v excited!!

Fen

My cute neighbour!

2007-11-15T21:39:00.000+08:00

This is my cutie neighbour!! N she's so smart, she can speak so clearly n keep asking us 'what's this? what's this?" and she's barely 2 yr old! I Love her so much! She always cheer up my life! N she will always run to out house n call 'uncle' , 'auntie', 'jie jie', kor kor' .. so sweet.....

heheh but a bit upset cos she and her family moved out yesterday.. haiz very sad. I know I gonna miss her lots. I wonder when's the next time I can see her..:)

Fen

The Holiday season

2007-11-11T19:48:00.001+08:00

Yo yo yo! The holiday season is here again! And this time me and dear dear would be going together sort of like our honeymoon after our ROM. And it would be a very cold country. Can see snow! FINALLY can fulfil our dream our holidaying together, just the 2 of us. This is a much awaited trip as we haven gone overseas for very very long. It would also be my graduation trip :). 1 1/2 years in-the-waiting! Ha. Would have to start shopping for winter wears loh! Exciting!

KG

The ground is done..

2007-11-08T22:33:00.000+08:00

Been 1.5 week since the renovation started. Quite pleased that the floorings are almost done! It feels good to see the place nicely tiled and I believe we chose the right one for our floor! Can't wait for the next stage to start! Now's approaching the christmas season and really hope it'll be done by then! Ha.

Today's public holiday and I had to work till noon. sianz. Dear Dear went out with a friend who's been real troubled by affairs of the heart. Dear Dear said she had a long talk with her and even cheered her up! That's what charm my Dear Dear has! IT just comes natural to her. hah! Then Dear Dear also said she wanted to stay home next time and work from home. Hmmm... When would that be! Haha! It better be soon!

Kg

2007-11-02T00:02:00.000+08:00

Been cracking my head over which ROM gown to choose.. which one is nicer? ehehhe some say this, some say that, some say i shd choose the one i like. Darling prefer the white one, but me of course likes the pink one! heheh hmm.. think think think.. hehe hAve a gd time trying the gowns wif the two ladies wif me. hehhe thanks gals!

Had been rather tired recently, headache. Maybe i gt too much tots in my mind. haiz..been thinking alot.. life is short, shdnt i jus keep it sweet n simple?

The First Day!

2007-10-29T23:28:00.001+08:00

Finally our first day of renovation! The contractor was there early and with all the slabs of tiles for our flooring. IT's such a joy to see the tiles as I can already see our house filled up with smooth, shiny tiles! WOuld take bout 2 weeks which is such a long time! I'm too impatient to see it done quickly. Really a happy day! Made our second payment also to make it 50%. Heartpain on the money but its allright as long as the end product is great!
Went back to the aircon shops at IMM to inquire the prices again. Couldn't really decide on whether to put air-conditioning in our hall as it would be quite big, especially after hacking down the balcony. We already had 4 rooms we wanted to put air con so it will quite a hefty sum if we do the same to the hall. MOre or less decided on Mitsubishi Electric, the one endorsed by Jack Neo. Reallly longing to see everything falling into place! Real SOON!

KG

2007-10-27T23:29:00.000+08:00

My Fridays recently had been v happening! hehe Darling said I had become busier wif gatherings n outings wif my gal frens and colleagues ever since I joined ubs. Unlike those days in audit where my time is wholly n totally devoted to WORK, now i have a more balanced life! I am able to go out till late hrs wif frens! N i enjoy it! heheh now i hardly meet Darling on fridays.. hehehe unless is gathering wif our common frens:)

heheh this Friday, we took half day leave to spent our day wif jac . heheh Jac must feel v honoured! hehehe anywae, we spent our day EATING n Drinking n EATING n taking photos..hahha a typical bimbotic , tai tai life! heheh but how often can we spent our afternoons like tt! heheh so It's worthy! heheh

Went cocoa restaurant for buffet steamboat for lunch. we ate for 2 hrs plus. Keep ordering n eating,.. hehhe ate till i feel so uncomfy. Later took a stroll from taka to ps.. then go TCC drink coffee, eat cake, took photo. heheh Then Rachel joined us after wk.. accompanied her to swenson.. hehe my stomach couldnt take it anymore.. so we jus drink water n chit chat n laughed .. heheh Kinda enjoyed my friday nite. But i was so damm tired. hehhe hope to have more of this kind of gatherings next time!

But, i wonder if jac will be free to join us, as she's gonna settle down in her new wk place, learning new things, making new frens. Guess she will be pretty stressed n worried too.. Hope everything goes well for her!=P

Fen

2007-10-22T22:28:00.000+08:00

I believe most of our frens r aware that we are starting our own family soon & had bought a flat at JW. Gonna start our renovation very soon, and of course, this comes with a price. A lot of things to buy, to do, a lot of sacrifices to make. felt rather stressed out and down cos we r really spending to our cents. Now i really understand wat it means by TIGHT. Other than renovation cost, there r aso other costs like electrical costs n furnishing. haiz.. jus when i was complaining to Darling, he said it in a very positive way, " At least, we went through the worst together"

Hehhe.. feel kinda warm n touched when i heard this. I know Darling must be feeling stress too.. but he dun really show it. I aso wanna tell Darling, "It's ok. At least, we r gg thru the worst together now. I know we will make it through, by God's grace!"

Fen

2007-10-20T23:50:00.000+08:00

Had a v fun KTV session wif my church frens- alvin, joe, sherine and of course Darling. Brought my brother along too, hehe first see my own bro sing, abit weird. i think he can sing canto song v well! frankly, i dun sing well at all. I only dare to sing before frens i m really close n comfy wif. I guess it's the support n encouragement that gives me the courage! heheh I know at least, they wont laugh at me and i can be v open to them! I will improve n be better the next time we go! hehe after that, went to have supper at Mr Bean. Have a gd fellowship wif them, hearing their latest updates and know more about how each of them is doing. I seriously think fellowship is so impt! We shdnt take ppl around for granted! It's gd to spend some time wif ur loved ones! Oh, I m happy that my bro came. Thou he's v quiet all along, i guess this is all natural as this is the first time he joins me for outing and despite the age gap, he still comes and is v frenly n open! Quite happy.. nowadays, who will wan to hang out wif siblings' frens? Not many i guess. hehe reminds me of the times when he tag along wif me to school and lunch wif me n my frens during recess times. hehe I still rem vividly how everyone praises i gt such a cute n chubby bro then! Time flies man!

Woke up at 12 pm today, hehe slept at 3 plus last nite. tired sia.. anywae went to visit my neighbour's house and saw another new neighbour there too. They r so frenly n nice.. so happy that I went. Can feel her excitement and happiness when she shared wif us her reno process.. hehe I cant wait for my turn! So excited! I hope my reno can be smooth! I cant wait....

These 2 yrs is gonna be another stage, a turning pt to me. Gonna be a Mrs v soon. A lot of new responsibitlies and things to learn. Now, its not about ME, but US. I cant be selfish and think of myself only now! Cant wait for all the plans to be fulfilled and everything to fall in place smoothly..

FEN

Small Start

2007-10-15T21:34:00.000+08:00

Today the HDB contractor came to change the window panels. Although it was a very small kind of reno, it set me really excited. Also the toilet doors were tore down. I guess this kind of sets the ball rolling on our house renovation. When I told the contractor I am the owner, he gave me that "Are you sure?" kind of look! Hah. No matter. It's better to look young than old and hagged. Youthfulness is wonderful mah!
Anyway the contractors would be coming to change the toilet bowls and sinks and also the toilet doors this sat. Hah! SO exciting! Hope to be able to see the whole change process!

KG

Kids- Do I really Love them??

2007-10-14T23:20:00.001+08:00

I used to think that I m a kid lover.. i love to cuddle n kiss cute babies when I see them.. I enjoy playing wif them. I love to give them sweets n foodies and toys hehe. But, recently, have some encounter wif some kids which I really cant stand! Some disobedient kids.. haiz.. Despite Darling's numerous attempts to ask me be more patient and understanding wif them, I just couldnt see eye to eye to them. Or shd i say i like cute kids but i cant stand Naughty ones!! But Darling reminded me NOT TO JUGDE, as we never know how our kids in future would be like!

So I guess, I still need some time to improve n seek God for more patience, before i m ready to be mummy myself. It's always fun to play wif kids for few min but its never easy to take care n discipline them to be gd n obedient children of GOD!

Fen

All the best, gal!

2007-10-12T20:43:00.000+08:00

Today's my fren's last day in UBS. Intended to attend her farewell dinner toegther wif the rest of the colleagues, but today happened to be my bro's bday. Thus, I had to give it a miss.

Feel abit down when the hour passed today.. upset, down n lonely. Mayb cos she's one of my closest peer in UBS, her leaving made me feel bit sad n lost. Those were the days when we will go back together at 9pm and we will chit chat.. tok about our lives and problems, crack silly jokes on the cab.. Those were the days when this ger keep pestering about sun yan zi, asking me to intro her to yan zi.. heheh Those were the days when we can recall funny incidents earlier in the day and laughed crazily at them.. Though I know her for barely a few mths, i feel her sincere and genuine care and concern towards me, encouraging me and giving me a listening ear when i m down, suan-ing me when we toking crap.

I will definitiely miss those days when we always stick together. Ger, do u know u r one nicest gal i know? U made me feel so welcome when I m in such a foreign land. U brighten up my day when I am puzzled by the world around me. U r such a great fren! I cant wait for the day when my house is ready n u guys can come over n stay over wif me! U said we r frens, not colleagues. Our friendship will blossom and last alwayz!! Rem gal, no matter how messy the world is out there, no matter how ppl disappoint u, dun forget, there is me here! I will always trust u n stand by ur side!! Love ya gal!Friends forever!

Fen

Sick:(

2007-10-08T22:53:00.000+08:00

Down wif sore throat, fever, cold, cough n flu.. that stupid doctor!! So angry, went c doc on saturday but gt worse! Visited another doc again jus now.. HAd been sneezing n coughing so badly in office.. so paiseh.. cos shifu is jus sitting opp me.. haiz. If i were her, i would be so pissed off and irritated! hehehehe..

Darling nice nice.. rushed down to pei me c doc.. heheh thanks darling, I will take care of myself!

Yeah, We saw the drawings! So pleased!! Johnny can really c our dreams n knows wat we wan! hehe a combination of modern n classy concept! Loves it! We wan some bright colours in our living room.. to brighten up our mood! heheh We r still young, so we wanna try something bright n shocking!! hehehe when we turn old, i guess we wont dare to try these colours! hehehe

Will update again when my reno starts!

Fen

I can see our home!

2007-10-08T22:19:00.000+08:00

Things are getting really really exciting! Just got the initial design from our contractor. It fits in with our ideas really well. As we go through the selection of coulour I can start to visualize the place. It is becoming so real! I can even see it in my dream. In a few weeks time the work would be starting. Haha! can't contain my joy. I can picture myself going down to spot check on the progress. It would be so exciting to see our home taking shape!

Dear Dear fell sick. Really pray she can get well soon. Please do take care k? Our reno starting liao so we must be very healthy to see our home to completion!

KG

Exciting Times!

2007-09-26T22:53:00.001+08:00

The past week has been a truly exciting time. Firstly, me and Dear Dear went about searching for a contractor for our house renovation. Turned out the one we decided upon was really nice and quoted quite reasonable price. We actually bargained with him, showing him another quote which was at a lower price. Ha. Still, we can see that we had a good deal. Really excited that out renovation is starting soon! Hopefully by year end, we would be able to see our house nicely done up!

Second, we went to Orchard Hotel to take a look at the wedding banquet package. They had a promotion earlier this month, and we thought we missed it. Ha. The sales person offered us the same promotion and we got a $699 off plus lotsa perks! It doesn't end there. The hotel organized a lucky draw for couples who signed up the packages with them. We are the last one to sign up and guess what, we ended up with a first prize of a pair of return air tickets to Seoul Korea and 3d2n stay at millennium Seoul Hilton values at $45oo! Thank God! Dear Dear really can prophesy when she said "the last shall be the first" minutes before the draw! Haha!

One Big Step Forward

2007-09-26T22:41:00.000+08:00

Been a long time since my last entry. Had been tight down with work n personal stuff recently and busy making big and impt decisions. But the process is joyous and happy! hehehe shall update u guys now!

I had signed up my renovation package- FINALLY! hehe been browsing thru forums and discussing wif Darling n our parents for quite some time before we made this decision. heheh our ID is a nice frenly understanding reasonable n patient uncle Johnny from A&D Interior! Chosen him cos of the chemistry wif him and the reasonable price he charged. He insisted that he used local carpentry so his quality definitely better than those who used foreign stuff.. hmm.. cross my fingers. Think its better to see the results then judge. But overall i m pretty satisfied wif the package and the price- comprehensive and reasonable!

Second Big news- I had signed up my wedding banquet package and decided on my wedding date- 27 Dec 2008!!! hehe this date is selected by my dad's geomancer. according to him, this is the best date. But initally we tot it's too far away le, so wanna choose his second best date- 28 Sep 08. However, it clashes wif Formulae 1 and we were worried bout road closure which may affect our guests. So in the end we decided on 27 Dec 2008! heheh near Christmas! We can celebrate the joyous moments of Jesus's bday with our wedding! Happy!! ehehhe Dec is a joyous and happy season!
N we really like our wedding coordinator- Nice and frenly and always try our best to give us the best perks she's able to offer:)But me abit worried about the food quality. Hope it will improve by then!! Pray!!

Oh, 1 more thing!! As we signed up the package during the promotion, we just attended the lucky draw tonite. N guess wat, by God's grace, we gt the 1st prize- honeymoon trip to Korea!!! Thank God! See, God is always faithful!! heheh before i put the draw lots into the container, my coordinator even reminded me to pray to 'my GOD' and ask for blessing! N I did!!!!hehe.. thou we wanna go japan for honeymoon, think now we gonna go two cty! so happy! A BIG surprise.. i tot we gt no chance to win le and was bout to carry our bags n walked off!! Thank God we stayed thru n we won!! So happy!!

It had been a challenging period for us as we r starting to make BIG decisions which even if we would to regret next time, we still have to go ahead wif them. So we really need God to interfere! I m really thankful. I will always pray before I made these decisions. N God is always faithful! He made me feel at ease in the decisions we made! I really thank God for being wif us throughout and putting good n nice ppl in our life thoughout this period:) I am so thankful. I will continue to believe in God and love God wholeheartedly! Thank u, God! I feel ur presence!Amen!

Lastly, I love my Darling for all his confidence, optimism, support, encouraging and tender love n care for me!!U r God's greatest gift for me! Thank God!!!

Fen

Family Dinner at Fish & Co.

2007-09-15T22:16:00.001+08:00

My youngest brother, booked out today. He treat us dinner today at fish & Co. !! My parents were so happy, grinning away most of the time.. hehehe we seldom take photos.. n today we took the most photos, ever since so many yrs ago!! heheh really happy.. my parents are so happy, cos my brother hardly treat them. So they are really excited:)

Hmm.. Ever since my brother start going to church, it's pretty obvious that he had changed~ FOR THE BETTER!! He had less vulgarity in his mouth now, less cursing n swearing, more tame n good tempered, speak softer now, more understanding. He had really changed! N my parents are really happy!! He held grudges against my dad for quite some time.. cos my bro was really really bad last time.. making them so upset in the past. Now that he had changed for the better, my parents are so glad that to them, as long as we r obedient and good and safe and sound, religion is secondary. I am really glad and amazed by how God can be so mircalous, doing such good works in our lifes. U can never imagine how naughty he was , how chaotic we can be until these days!! Now, all is peaceful and harmonious. and we look forward to him booking out..Now, at least, we are happy to see him around at home. He also smiles more now, instead of frowning every moment, as if all of us offended him..:)

I am really thankful that God places good ppl in his life to impact him, and speak to him. I thank God for all the great works He had done. I am always doubtful when ppl share wif me how God changed them from an ah Beng to a successful and prosperous businessman.. from a human perspective, i was totally suspicious and doubtful. But God is always faithful, HE works in my life!I pray that God can continue to change my bro to a better, more responsible and successful person and that he can continue to walk in the Light, with Jesus forever leading him. Amen:)

I also pray that God can give me and KG financial breakthrough. I need a miracle. I need financial Blessings. Our renovation is starting, which involves a lot of $$.. haiz.. getting really stressed these days. I am really worried that i dun have enough money. I shall leave my worries to Jesus Christ. Nothing is too big a problem for HIM. Jesus provides!!!

Fen

I'm an NO!

2007-09-12T23:21:00.000+08:00

No, don't get me wrong. It's not "no". NO = Navigating Officer. Yes! My very first appointment as a career soldier! I'm so excited. Now I'm no longer a liability on board and I can contribute. It's really a great leap in my career. I really look forward to this day! 1 year plus as a trainee...I had enough! hah!
Now I'm in charge of a department, facing new challenges and responsibilities. No fear! I'll follow my heart and do what I think is right. Life's beginning to look good! At least I'm now earning more respect! Ha!

KG

2007-09-09T21:57:00.000+08:00

haiz...had a small quarrel wif Darling last nite.. but silly me cant bear to be angry wif him for more than 1 DAY (thou I insist and believe he's at fault first).. But still cant bear to ignore him.. haiz.. will still worry for him and wanna remind him to remind him to take care of himself.. hehe.. nvm.. Me 大人不记小人过。hehe.. Darling is 小人，I am 大人！哈哈哈哈哈！！！！

Silly & Bo-Liao Fen

FriDay Nite is FUN!=P

2007-09-08T13:16:00.000+08:00

Haven been blogging for quite some time as it's Month End.. had been pretty tight up with work. Been going home late.. but I guess, I will be more efficient once I get the hang of my current job:) I CAN DO IT!

Anywae these few wks are interesting. Had steamboat lunch with my excolleague-Linda last friday. A good time to catch up wif each other. Haven seen her ever since i left dt. heheh.. one of my reliable source and 'spy' in dt.. hehehe.. know quite a lot of stuff in dt. Well, dt news are nothing interesting, except who resign, who promote , who getting married or who pregnant.. heheh.. dt is really a place where ppl come n go.. turnover rate is.. DRASTIC! Anywae, really happy to meet up wif her.. really like this sister in Christ. She always got her way to show her understanding and care for me!

Pulled Liyi along for "Rataouilite" proudly sponsored by my new company =P the movie is heartwarming, though a bit boring at some parts. Went lunch at cafe cartel wif liyi after tt.. enjoyed the moment wif her.. always talk crap and "heart talk" wif her.. hehehe my secrets are always safe wif her:)

Yesterday, haiz.. gonna be alone on friday nite as Darling had his 'officer dinner' and I put Lilis "aeroplane" as I gonna work till 7 plus while she will be free at 530. Hehe.. but in the end some colleagues of mine who stayed as late as me, decided to go dinner tog. As my colleague's hubby is driving, we went to geylang to eat my favourtite, frog leg porridge! So yummy yummy nice!! I love it!!! Better than the other stall in geylang.. first time trying this stall!! SO NIce.. I like hehehe... after that, went to eat DOU JIANG YOU TIAO at Yong HE.. hehe Nice too.. though bit full le, but still cant give up such nice food.. hehe..I quite like my new colleagues here.. Thou still not as close as my grp of frens in DT, but i think they r more ONZ.. heheh can arrange for gatherings/ outings v easily.. everyone is v frenly n initiative, and v kind hearted ppl!!!Life is never boring with these ppl around! As a newcomer, I feel very welcomed and blessed!! My excolleague joining my co. soon, hope they will feel as happy and welcomed as me too!!

Oh, 2 of my colleagues' bday fall on this day~ HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JOYCE & VIVIEN!U LADIES ARE GREAT!=)

Also, Congrats Darling for passing his assessment! Thou I dunno the importance and significance of this assessment, but i know Darling is really happily cos he's officially promoted!! U r great!! I am proud of u!!!hehehe, darling tell me some gd news too!! So happy and looking forward to realising our dreams together!! Love u Darling..hope we can really make it this time=)

Happy-and-silly FEN

I passed my MANEX assessment!

2007-09-06T22:50:00.000+08:00

Yeah the day has finally come! I passed my MANEX assessment. Soon I'll say goodbye to the days being an AO. I'll soon become an NO and take charge of a department. Life would start to turn for the good. Haha!
Then I can apply for leave and go for the delayed Taiwan trip with Dear Dear. Woo hoo! I'm so happy. Really looking forward to the trip. I'll accompany Dear Dear to shop like mad and we'll go places and eat like mad! It'll be our first overseas trip together. Yeah!

KG

My stressful week

2007-09-02T23:20:00.000+08:00

My stressful week ended with work being at a low. Got reprimanded by boss but well, that's the life of a trainee. Glad that at least there's still Dear Dear around to encourage me. It's a very heartwarming thing to listen to her explaining bout how God has put us in the market place to shine and do great works for Him. Sounds familiar and things that would have come out from my own mouth, but when put in the situation, I can never seem to apply it myself! Thank God I have Dear Dear!~

Then there was the massages and caring gestures from Dear Dear, Really feel I'm the luckiest guy in the world!! Hah! I see a good wife in her!!! 赚到啦！

KG

Mine's here!

2007-08-27T22:59:00.000+08:00

Profile Results

Score Love Language
8 Words of Affirmation
7 Quality Time
3 Receiving of Gifts
5 Acts of Service
7 Physical Touch

How to interpret your Profile Score:

Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love
language. If two scores are identical, you are bilingual (you have two primary love languages). If the scores of your
primary and your secondary language are close (for example, 10 & 9 respectfully), it indicates both are important to
you. Whatever a significant other does to express love in either of these languages will get emotional points with you.
The highest possible score for any language is 12.

Having a clear picture of your primary & secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior Think back
over the past and ask yourself "What have I most often requested from significant others?" Chances are your answer
will lie within the scope of your primary & secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet
your deepest need for emotional love.

My Love Language

2007-08-27T22:48:00.000+08:00

I'd just done a love language test at http://www.greaterquest.com/LoveLanguages.asp

My results are as follows:

Score Love Language
9 Words of Affirmation
2 Quality Time
8 Receiving of Gifts
4 Acts of Service
7 Physical Touch

How to interpret your Profile Score:

Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love
language. If two scores are identical, you are bilingual (you have two primary love languages). If the scores of your
primary and your secondary language are close (for example, 10 & 9 respectfully), it indicates both are important to
you. Whatever a significant other does to express love in either of these languages will get emotional points with you.
The highest possible score for any language is 12.

Having a clear picture of your primary & secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior Think back
over the past and ask yourself "What have I most often requested from significant others?" Chances are your answer
will lie within the scope of your primary & secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet
your deepest need for emotional love.

Hehhe.. so Darling, is the test result accurate?? U go try too>!

Fen=P

Our first Neighbour

2007-08-27T20:36:00.000+08:00

Yes! We finally met our new neighbours They are a chinese couple and surprisingly, I find them quite Singaporean. They do not have the accent and nothing about them look distinctively Chinese. It's probably their appearance that me and Dear Dear are really very determined to start our renovation asap. Ha. I guess Dear Dear is afraid that we would be alone on our floor with no neighbours around. Ha! But I must say, I'm also inspired to do up our place so that it will be up and ready very very soon! Gambatte!

KG

Singapore Flyers!

2007-08-25T11:58:00.000+08:00

The latest addition to Singapore's Skyline! It is a very big ferries wheel and situated in a very prominent place. It is me and Dear Dear's ideal place for our ROM. How exciting! I hope the construction can finish quickly so we can go and take a look. Last heard they are installing the capsules. The view, I can imagine, would be simply breathtaking! After going through the website www.singaporeflyer.com.sg, it will definitely be another hot tourist spot.
This weekend no work commitment so I hope will be able to spend quality time with Dear Dear. This will be a great weekend ahead and many many more to come!

I'm finally back..

2007-08-22T23:29:00.000+08:00

Yeah! I'm finally BACK to a bit of normal life. Been REALLY bogged down with work. How great it is to see Dear Dear after so many days! Although she said that it has been years!!! Hha! Really the feeling of being back is simply great! I really do not like to be away for so long... Tiring also...ha.
Really must thank Dear Dear for being so understanding and patient with me. It takes such great charater to be my girlfriend and future wife hah! Come come, kiss kiss!! Ha..
Dun worry Dear Dear. Everything would be fine k? It's so great to see you so fervent an d on fire for God once again. Love ya!

KG

Tired.. moody

2007-08-22T13:27:00.000+08:00

Feeling bit moody and tired today.. something keeps worrying me at the back of my mind. Feel unhappy and siaz.. n moody n restless.. dun feel like doing anything, listening to others.. jus wanna do things my way.. jus dun feel like toking to anyone and dun feel like impressing ppl.. i m jus sianz.. bored.. i know this feeling will be over once i got the answer of my problem. I really hope the answer will come soon, I dun wan to keep guessing and feeling troubled over all these. God, can u please ans my prayers? I wan an answer. I feel so mentally drained every day and nite.

Darling's back!!

2007-08-20T22:06:00.000+08:00

Darling finally called me after Soooooo longgggg!! Not that he is throwing tantrum, dun wan to call, but cos he's out in the sea again.. this time his ship is delayed. Expected to reach yester afternoon. In end, the ship only came back to spore tonite.. i feel so relieved!! So worried for him.. somemore raining so heavily. But at least now, i know he's safe n sound:) hehe.. So happy..:)

Darling says tt this is 小别胜新欢，haha.. I think i am starting to cherish every moment wif him n not jus took him for granted, cos I would never know when he had to be in sea for wks.. its s unpredictable. No matter wat, I will still support u in whatever u do k? Dun let me b a burden n ur concern in ur career!! As long as u r happy n enjoying wat u r doing, I will be happy!!!

Hehe.. was talking to a fren jus now. She kept praising kg, saying that he's really a v v nice bf and takes really gd care of me and even help me remove prawn shells, cook black chicken soup and bird nest for me. hehe she chided me for bullying kg despite all his efforts.. made me feel so guilty. hehe.. anywae I am really thankful for having such gd frens around who support and encourage me, instead of pulling me down. My frens are always there to edify kg, reminding me how gd kg is and how blessed i am. We are all human flesh, and we tend to take things for granted, if not for all these reminders from my frens.

Of course, there are ppl who called themselves frens around me, always pulling me down, trying to dig the dark sides of me and telling me how not-so-gd kg was and how insecured his job is and how often he's away and he may jus run away wif such an unstable job. Often I just laughed it off, not cos i agree with them. I dun even have to explain. If they are frens in the first place, such remarks shdnt have come from them. I am old enough to know who r frens and who r not, who stand by me in ups and downs, who forsake me when i need a hand, who laughed at my decision, or who likes to compare wif me. I wont be angry. They have their own reasons for their words. They dun have to explain why they said these. If they r trying to hurt me or my rel, i m sorry, u failed:)These ppl arent sincere and truthful and dun respect their frens. Dont u know how to define "friends"? I think u shd learn to love urself first:)

But darling always gt pissed when he heard all these remarks. Darling, no worries, our rel is strong enough to withstand all circumstances!! We dun have to explain to them. Time will tell!! Love ya! U faster come back ya?!:P

谢谢你的耐性，容忍我的任性。
谢谢你的成熟稳重，弥补我的幼稚。
谢谢你无微不至的照料，让我像是受保护的动物。
谢谢你的细心与疼爱，让我宛如小鸟依人。

你为我付出的一切，我会好好珍惜！

我爱你！

Joyce Meyer

2007-08-19T19:56:00.000+08:00

Joyce Meyer came to our church to preach to pray!! Her words really get into me and touches my heart. She boils down to the very basic- Loving God wholeheartedly and loving people fervently, even loving your enemies. Yes, we read this in the bible and we know BY RIGHT we have to do these commandments. But BY LEFT, with our weak human flesh, are we really able to do it? Loving ppl who hurt us, or ppl who r strangers to us?

Joyce Meyer preaches that we are only FREE when we reach a point that we do not have to impress other ppl, do not have to care bout wat others say and comment on our looks and our actions. We should be confident and be ourselves. It's only when we are FREE, then can we let Jesus flow thru us but not only in us! She aso says in order to love ppl, we have to first learn to love God, then love ourselves. With that, we can then love others, treat others wif care and respect. Joyce Meyer was sexually abused by her natural father for 15 years when she were still a kid and it aso took a very long time for her to forgive her father. She reminded us to be responsible for taking care of our parents.

I feel God's presence so strong today. I really enjoy the service very much.. listen v v attentively just now. I really thank God for pulling me out of the bed jus now.. heheh i woke up late!It really benefitted me lotsa..Now i know i must try to love God first so that ALL things will be added to me:>

I went for bowling wif my church frens.. still as lousy skills, but is ok.. practice makes perfect! heheh

i really thank some of my church frens who asked bout my brother's case..they still rem n they care:) Thanks so much ya.. the verdict not out yet.. haha i hope the officers can just forget all bout it.. but i think its my fat hope.. hope things wont turn out too bad..worry:(

Fen

What kind of a girl is Dear Dear?

2007-08-17T09:53:00.000+08:00

This is a tough question... sometimes, she is cloaked in mystery, unable to tell anything from her expressions.

Just kidding.

On the contrary, my Dear Dear is quite the opposite. One can tell the "weather" from her expressions, mannerism and words. That's what I like bout her! So direct and not hidding anything. Also, she is one who dares to express herself and her views. Of cos sometimes she's so shy, esp in front of unfamiliar faces. That's so cute isn't it?

Another thing bout Dear Dear. She can be so animate and "cartoon". Her jovial nature brings sunshine to my life! There's no girl like her. haha!

If there's anything bout her, that is she worries too much. She worries too much, for me that is. I'm so touched! Dun worry k? That's a song that goes," Everthing's gonna be all right!"

KG

In Office today..

2007-08-16T13:14:00.000+08:00

I am in office now.. hehee Have been here for 2 mths le!!Time flies man.. really thank God that these 2 mths passed smoothly. I realised i had never blogged about my new job and my new colleagues. Let me tok a bit here..

My new job- Business unit controller (sounds cool ya?)-- Generating pnl everyday.. analysing difference. I think my bosses r really nice ppl. They give me few things at a time. Thus, I can still manage at the moment. Just tt I dun have any banking experience, a lot of terms and work n systems are v v diff from audit. I am still learning.. hoping to grab the ropes real soon:)

My colleagues are nice ppl.. I worked under a pretty and sweet lady-- my mentor. Personally i feel that she is a quiet person who wont intiate to tok to u.. as in she needs time to warm herself up.. not the super frenly type. hehe but I am still thankful; that she had been really patient wif me.. despite me asking the same question so many times and bombarding her wif really stupid question and even excel stuff.. kaoz.. now i realise how sheltered we r in dt with our dear AS2, which seems to make our life so much easier! Anywae, my mentor had been v understanding n kind n patient. hehe thou she can be really quiet at times, she is still a very kind n good natured ger. Hope that I can know her better:)

My big boss, bp, is a very nice guy too.. a 40yr old uncle. hehhe but seriously, i think for his age, he looks young and is quite good looking too..hehehe i regret telling this to my colleagues.. they had been teasing me over this! anyway this boss of mine ahd been very understanding, mild tempered too..I feel so fortunate to have him as my boss:)

However, i still feel that i am unabl;e to click v well wif the ppl here.. since they had already established so gd frenship amg themselves. i mean of course, they r kind enuf to let me join them for lunch.. but at times, i still dunno wat to tok to them.. feel a bit awkward.. i pray n hope time can make us closer n i am able to get along better wif them! Nevertheless, i still miss my clique in deloitte.. my kakhis.. miss them so much!! When r we meeting up for dinner again?? ahaha must it really be somebody's last day then will we meet up? hehe:)

Fen

My Week end

2007-08-12T23:52:00.000+08:00

Had a well spent wkend. Went to watch 881 wif my family on friday.. wow.. it had been ages we spendt such quality time together..initially i just wanna treat dad n mum for the movie but mum suggested all of us go tog. hehe so.. all of us went:) The movie was quite funny and enjoyable.. heheh alot of hokkien songs. I think my parents enjoy the most and the 3 of us jus laughed along wif them hehe..

Saturady, I went jogging wif kg. hehe yah.. i finally put my words to actions.. finally i go back to the tracks again .. after..hmm..mths whahaha.. had been really lazy and tired. But i realise i am starting to grow horizontally again.. so better buck up:P We went singing after tt.. hehe really enjoyed ktv wif kg. aside from the fact tt he can sing v well, he also guides me and give me many valuable advice and encouragement.. I always learnt a thing or two at the end of our ktv session.

Sunday, we went service early in the morning. AR Bernard is the speaker for this weekend. He talks about "Be propser and be in health, so as u propser in ur soul". He teaches how our spiritual life sustains our life, health and prosperity. He talks about the importance of being spiritually strong, which really makes me reflect and encourages me to build up my spiritual life again:)
We went to watch RUSH HOUR 3 after tt.. hehe a very funny show.. Cris Tucker is really really funny.. hehehe..

Btw Darling bought me my first coach bag, which I had never bear to spend the money on myself!! I am so excited and happy!! hehe I am so thankful!! Thank u Darling for being ever sweet and generous:)

Oh ya, something bad happened to my brother. Really worried for him. hai.. i feel really guilty tt I only know it in Saturday when the incident happened on wednesday. I cried whenever i tot of the consequences he's gonna face. Yes, I admit he is really the naughty boy in our family.. always making mum n dad sad.. but the fact is we got the same blood. When things happen, I will really go all out to protect my brother, by all means. I rem when we were kids, when we were so close, whenever i see my brother kena bullied by others, i will go all out to protect my brother. Mayb cos I am the eldest, I feel very heartache when i c my brother going thru all these. If can, I would want to ask his bosses for grace.. I dun mind humbling myself to beg them. I just want my brothers to be safe and sound. When he's trouble or when he comes home late, my parents and I will be so worried. In our eyes, he is forever a child. Forever my 小弟。

I pray to my Father, JEsus Christ in heaven, U said that if one in the family is saved, the whole family will be saved. Jesus, although my brother is a non-christian and may have said things hurtful in ur name, I seek for ur forgiveness on his ignorance. Jesus, I pray that u can let him see YOU thru this incident. Jesus, I pray that u can bless him wif wisdom, knowledge and maturity in handling this incident. I pray Lord to give him strength. Let him be brave to face any consequence. Jesus, I pray tt u will protect him. Jesus, he's ur lost sheep. I pray Lord that U can enlighten him. Even if he falls, he will not fall hard. Let him fall on u. Jesus, I really seek ur help in this issue. U r the only ONE I can turn to and can ask for help. Cos i know u r the saviour of the Earth. For all these, I pray in Jesus's name. Thank you Jesus. Amen:)

Fen

Honey SOOOO Sweet!

2007-08-06T22:19:00.000+08:00

My Dear Dear made honey for me when I returned from my sailing! So sweet right? Ha. She'll definitely make a good wife. Next time, she can also cook, wash the dishes, wash and iron the clothes etc etc. Haha!

Really, I feel so pampered although it's just a bottle of honey. She was concerned I would get too heaty with all the late nights. I feel I'm a lucky guy! Love ya Dear Dear!

KG

2007-08-01T13:10:00.000+08:00

YESSSSS!!! My Darlings loves "Kou rou" Bun!! Yucks.. it's so.. oily and fattening.. i really dun understand why he loves it so much!! He can even chew the fats like..hmm.. CHEWING GUMS!! Duhh?? They r different k??? Oh my God, i still feel so disgusted after a night had passed! wahaha..

Anywae, we celebrated our 2nd yr anniversary last fri!! hehe it's a belated celebration! anywae we had been tog for 2 yrs! yah, may not be long for some.. hehe it seems like yesterday when he first hold my hand and say "I love u".. hehe still rem the first time when we got together.. hehe it's so.. UNROMANTIC.. whahah..

This year, Darling made more than a thousand (He claimed) paper stars for me and pasted them on a cardboard for me.. n i did a similar thing for him too!! so coincidental! hehe.. we went JUST STEAK for dinner.. hmm.. dun really feel comforatble there as it is so posh and quiet.. v few customers tt day.. afterthat, we rushed to collectr our wedding bands from Lee Hwa (Destinee). So Happy!! finally we got the rings!! hehe a very simple one cos it's gonna last us a lifetime! we'r not gonna change it!!Though simple, we r both v happy and agreeable to the design:) Not too fanciful:)

N one more thing, we gonna register for rom next mon!! Very excited.. really hope the date we wan will not b fully taken up.. hehe but i am personally quite nervous. My status gonna changed to MARRIED after rom.. i dunno if i am up to it.. up to the standard of being a gd wife. very nervous.. hehe was 'negotiating' wif darling if we can postpone our rom to next yr jan.. but she dun seem to be v "happy" with the idea.. whahah... anywae.. still open for discussion rite, darling? heheheh

I love 扣肉包

2007-08-01T00:12:00.000+08:00

Today went to the annual auction event where Dear Dear's father is a member. A rather significant member I must say. He was in suit and tie, ushering the people around. He must have really like his role.

Really enjoyed the food, quite sumptous. Especially the last dish. Too bad it came last. One of my fav. The 扣肉包! Dear Dear's neighbours were there too. And they came prepared with plastic bags to da bao! So clever.

Dear Dear simply couldn't understand why I like the dish. Ha. to me it's like chewing gum. And I like the fatty portion. hah!! She must have felt very disgusted!!

KG

It feels GOOD to be busy!

2007-07-25T22:42:00.000+08:00

Yes that's what I felt. Such occasions are rare. Who, in the right mind would feel good when they are busy? I'm not talking bout the workoholics.

We've finally a place to our name, and it really is such a perfect timing as it coincide with our 2-years anniversary! Now there are more things to be done, a foreseeable busy few months ahead. But, fret not, it would be a very exciting and fulfilling time, when me and Dear Dear would together plan and build up our DREAM HOME!

Every journey starts with a little step. We'll just take one step at a time, and enjoy the whole process! I really am very excited to really get everything started for it is our shared dream! I can almost see and feel our future home! :)

For now, I'll start with getting the lock for our front door! Haha!

KG

Happy Anniversary!

2007-07-24T13:24:00.000+08:00

hehe first time blogging in the office.. dunno if it's allowed. Anywae, today is our anniversary! Happy Anniversary to my dearest and beloved Darling!! So happy! We had come thus far ya? hehe looking forward to many many more anniversaries on the way! Today Darling gonna be out in the sea.. so cant celebrate wif me.. is ok! We r gonna celebrate on Friday! hehe i will bring along the camera and we will capture the Moment!:)

I bet the greatest prezzie this yr is getting our keys to our home yesterday! I am really glad that our home exceed wat i expect to see.. it's big enuf.. n i am really v happy wif it! We gonna turn it into a cozy and warm place which we called Home! hehe There r so many upcoming events for the rest of this yr.. doing our renovation, rom-ing, going taiwan for our "ROM-Moon" (I really pray and hope that we can make it for the trip this yr!).. Oh, another good thing is we r getting our wedding band this wk! Thanks to my cousin in law! We getting it at a very discounted price!! I feel so blessed and happy!

Looking forward to everyday wif u!:)

Pei Fen

THE KEYS!

2007-07-23T02:07:00.000+08:00

Yeah! The keys. It's finally gonna be here. The keys to our new life and home. Me and Dear Dear would be going down to collect them and wow, it's really blowing my mind off. I can't help not think about it. My Dear Dear not really happy I din do the cost right but I know, no matter the cost, it's gonna happen. My keys!

There are so many things to be taken care of after tomorrow I can just visualize. It's gonna be a lot of planning, a lot of discussion, negotiating and phone calls. Well, they say, it's the journey not the destination, but for now, I had my eyes all focused on the end product. Who cares what they say! HA!

Dear Dear wanted to wait for an "auspicious" time to make our "Grand Entrance" but impatient me, I say, "let's just go immediately!" Ha. You can imagine my joy! Now I can't wait for tomorrow, or must I be precise, 7 more hours! It's these kind moments that really take one's breathe away. And it's here.

KG

Our Anniversay coming...!!

2007-07-17T22:24:00.000+08:00

Our anniversay coming.. 24th July!! hehe.. Looking back at the days we had been together,and the very first time he held my hand, happiness filled my heart..:) really feel so glad that we have come this far. We had our share of ups and downs.. but he is always the one being bullied by me... hehe i know it can be really tough for him when even I dun even understand my mood swing. He had been really patient and understanding with me. With him, I am like a spoilt kid.. I get whatever I want.. he will rush to buy watever i crave to eat.. buy whatever i said i need.. i feel so loved.

We are so different. He can be very quiet and can entertain himself quietly at one corner. But I cant! I like to move around noisily, disturbing him.. hehe..

We were discussing on how we should celebrate our anniversay.. Darling wanna bring me to a popular restaurant at clarke quay for my favourite steak! But we can only make it on Sunday as he had to sail this Saturday (Yes, again:()However, the restaurant is fully booked on Sunday. hai... Anywae, was telling him it's just a date.. we can celebrate anytime. Not that I dun take it seriously, just that I feel so loved and pampered EVERYDAY. He provide for me whenever I need. I got no lack of anything. I am already very contented with wat I have now.. I am happy with my life.. I am really thankful:) Isnt it better than just being nice to me on our ANNIVERSARY date? hehe.. I dun need tiffany, coach, gucci.. I just need a heart that is close to mine :)

Fen

Darling queued for donuts!!

2007-07-14T22:40:00.000+08:00

My Darling queued up for 2 hours at Donut factory for me on Thursday! Cos he gotta knock off early. He queued from 4pm to 6pm.. i dinno till i knocked off at 6pm and called him! It's a surprise for me! I am so touched! cos he queued alone.. so patiently.. just for me. i m touched..i tot he will never do such things. My male frens and colleagues all said they will never do it and such fabs are only out to cheat gers.But darling queue for me!!! Thou i dunno why he also bought the orignal flaor(glaze) instead of other flavour, i am still v happy n touched. I feel like crying.. he's so silly!! He shd have waited for me.. as in, we initially planned to go down on a saturday morning to queue.. but he do it alone!! Thank u Darling!!

Today, we spent a very quiet and peaceful saturday.. no make up, not dressed up nicely.. just the very "orignal" us, shopping for groceries, n foods.. i really appreciate such small and simple happiness, just me n him..so sweet..

Dunno why, i had been feeling v impatient and easily agitated these days. I will throw tantrum and start to get angry v easily.. PMS? dunno.. but i feel sorry for darling.. he had to bear with my TEMPER and screams n nonsense. I know I am v unreasonable n too much sometimes.. but he is still v patient wif me. He never shout back.. he just listened quietly. Thank u so much for standing by me so patiently.. so understanding.. I m sorry.. i aso dunno wats wrong wif me these days.. jus v fed up and unhappy.. but in my heart, i know all ur pains and efforts.. i know and am touched but I just feel too agitated to express my appreciation. But i do love u k..:)

Thanks for the Donuts.. they are so sweet and nice (thou not tt good to waste the 2 hr queue..hehe). Thanks Darling. U r a great man! Love ya!

Fen

As long as you happy.

2007-07-12T23:39:00.000+08:00

Today I queued for the donuts at Donut Factory. just feel like doing it cos Dear Dear like to try them. Just happen that I was off early so Yeah! Spent 2+ hours standing there doing absolutely nothing. But well, it's time well spent cos I bought 24! Ha. As long as Dear Dear like it, and feel happy, I'll be willing to do it.

KG

Coming of age..

2007-07-05T23:49:00.000+08:00

Recently, I've been feeling the responsibility of being an adult. It's not to say that I'm not one. But by virtue of the fact that I just graduated one year ago, the thought of such responsibilities were not so apparent. Until now. Now that I'm totally immersed in the world of adulthood - career, family, finances, I really think that it's really not as simple as I thought.
For example, my job. My work nature possesses a dynamic schedule. Sometimes, my weekends are burnt. IT's all heartache, really. Now I understand why they say weekends are PRECIOUS. Not to make myself sound so gloomy, my job is all not that bad at all. Just got promoted and had a pay rise. Something more of a consolation I guess. 拿人钱财，替人消灾。
I really hope and pray that I'll have a better control over my schedules so that I can spend quality time with my Dear Dear, doing things that we like.

KG

Dinner!

2007-06-30T22:39:00.000+08:00

Brought my parents to Jack's Place for dinner tonite. Hehe.. i can feel their excitement. My parents are the typical Chinese father and mother who toiled their life for their children. They scrimp n save for us.. they will always prefer to eat at home and the most, goes to hawker centers. They dun go restaurants at sopping malls cos they always find it too expensive and even if i wanna treat them, they wouldnt wan me to spend. Today, after my begging and forcing n persuading, they finally decided to go Jack's place for dinner with me. hehe treated them steak. Mum was very happy.. so excited.. ask this ask tt.. very curious bout the things around, which, to us are so normal but to them, is FIRST TIME! For dad, they typical no expression look.. haha but i know he's happy.. cos this is a way of me showing tt i love them.. I love them.. my love language is to buy that food,. gifts and spend time wif them.. hehe this reminds me on how Darling treat me.. always wants the best for our loved ones.:)

Pei Fen

Love is...

2007-06-30T22:14:00.000+08:00

Went to gym wif Darling last night after work. Been very very long since I went gym.. very lazy n tired.. haha lame excuse.. n finally darling succeeded in pulling me to gym yester.. got a really great work out,.. as usually, ran threadmill, use the weights.. today my whole body was aching from my arms to butts to legs! So painful!!hehe..

Ok, anywae many ppl around me asked me why I decide to choose KG as my husband to be, why I love him, wat attracts me to him..

I believe a couple loves becos they trust and believe each other and are willing to sacrifice for each other sakes. When he's out in the sea, instead of lonely cos he's not here for me, I feel more worried for his safety. Cos he's in the sea.. all the tsunami and pirate thingy made me mad. I always pray and hope tt he can take care of himself n protect himself when anything happens. On the other hand, I will also want to take care of myself n assure him that I m independent enough to take care of myself without him. I dun wan to hinder his work, cos I love him.

Next, I always believe a couple in love should always support and guide each other in the Light. I was not opened up in the past, very conscious of wat ppl think, very scared of failure. Darling always encouraged me to believe in him n myself.. must try before i declare failure. He always tell me i dun have to bother bout wat ppl say.. he teaches me a lot of things. We did so many things together.. I learnt alot from him, like singing, swimming. There's gonna be many many weekends that we gonna spend tog to do more interesting n exciting things.. hehe crocodile farm, pulau ubin, makeover photo shot are on the way....:)

Darling aso takes very gd care of me.. i must say he's not the romantic kind who always has sweet honey words in his mouth. His words are always true and sincere. He touches my heart by the little things he did. Whenever he buy food for both of us, he will say " U take this bowl cos this is cooked and served later than the other bowl." He knows I gt sick easily. So he will always call n nag me to sleep. He stays awake n wait for me if i refuse to sleep. But he had to wake up like 530am the next day! He will give me morning call n wake me up on time. Even on sun morning, he will come all the way to my place to fetch me to service.. he looks tired sometimes but he will always insist. He carries my bag without fail. He makes sure he has umbrella in case it rains cos he knows i wont bring.

He always say i m a small tyrant. But he still dotes and loves me like a spoilt child. He always dun bear to spend on himself but he's never stingy on me. His love is so unconditional. I love him too.. He may not be handsome n dun dress up, but is cos he wan to spend on me instead. To me, he's really a man whom i can fall on. I know I will never fall hard, cos i will always land on him:)

Pei Fen

My Heart only for one person - 我心只为一人

2007-06-27T21:17:00.000+08:00

Sometimes I would do silly things to make people angry. Sometimes I would be quite inflexible and do not know how to appease Angery 小姐. Sometimes... sometimes...

But but but! I will learn to give in, and be more sweet with words, more generous with praises. 我心只为一人。。。!

2007-06-26T00:08:00.000+08:00

Not happy today, angry, angry, angry. why must things dun turn out to be the way i wan it to be? Can love really conquers everything? This dun seems to be my life. Sianz.. Why doe some ppl jus dun seem to get it? Low EQ? Really dun understand..

A day at the goat farm!

2007-06-24T21:26:00.000+08:00

This is my first weekend after my first job. Very happy and relieved! Went to goat farm at kranji countryside with darling on Saturday. We had great fun, feeding the goats with hay.. they are so cute! hehe as me n darling are both capricorns, we are very excited visiting them! We saw a male goat chasing after a bunch of female goats.. quite scary as it seems quite fierce and aggressive. hehe Darling says that it's "animal nature". Anywae, we concluded that other than this one, goats are generally very tame and mild tempered. Becos when I fed one, the rest wont fight for the hay. Instead, they will wait patiently for their turn. hehe quite impressed! So, Capricorns are very down to earth and good natured!:)

Next, we went to Bugis for steamboat which is highly recommended by Lilis. hai, a bit disappointed cos it makes my stomach very uncomforatble and i personally feel that it's not as good as wat lilis said.. plus so ex.. hai.. hehe lilis and my food taste a bit diff! N cos I dun feel comfortable after only an hr, we went without really enjoying the steamboat buffet.. hai, so i say, i hate going for buffet.. pay so much yet cant eat so much:(

Oh, btw i forgot to bring my wallet yester.. was sad initially as i planned to do lotsa shopping. hehe but Darling so sweet, he told me to just buy whatever i wan. N he's gonna pay all for me! hehe my dearest portable ATM!! So, i bought a few working clothes and a levis jeans yester and some facial products.. darling really spent a bomb for me! I am so guilty.. thanks darling, u r forever so nice to me!! Keep it on!:P

We went for long-awaited foot reflexology at the end of the day. hehe not very painful.. quite shuang.. hehe i think its not a bad idea to relax ur feet once in a while, esp after a long day of walking n shopping!

Very happy!! Thanks Darling for everything!!

我的专属天使！！！

2007-06-16T01:31:00.000+08:00

Yeah! Presenting......My little angel!!! Dear Dear is actually my angel in disguise. She showered me with so much love and care and I just can't help loving her enough. I'm sorry Dear Dear I had to sail so much and be away. How I wish I can always be by your side and be an angel to you in return. I want to take care of you always! ;P

Like the wings I give you? You look super-duper cool with wings! Love ya lots!!

KG

Me and Him

2007-06-16T00:34:00.000+08:00

We are together for 2 years. May not be long for some of the couples out there. But we had our fair shares of good and bad times. We were unsure of our future before, unsure if we are the ones for each other, unsure if our love is strong enough to uphold the future. We were unsure if our dreams will come to pass. We were unsure if our financial status allow us to be together and build a place called our home.

Though we are both capricorns, we are quite different. He's quiet, I'm noisy. He likes to read and meditate, but I hate. He enjoys wushu and qigong, but I know nothing bout them. He's down to earth and mature, but I am childish. My eyes love to stick on the tv, but he doesnt. He got the drive and determination with the "never-give-up" attitude, but I am lazy and gives up easily.

Yes. We are SO different. But I am glad we complement each other. He supports me whenever I wanna give up. He nags me to sleep when I refused to off my tv at wee hours. He summarized the books he had read to me, saving me the trouble to read. hehe.. yes, we are different. We may disagree with things, but we made it a point to talk things out, instead of bottling up. We r still so much in love! Things happen lately that made me realise his importance even more. His sole existence warms my heart. His voice on the other line cheers me up. He is away out in the sea for so long. Distance indeed makes my heart grow fonder of him!

I feel like I am the happiest girl in the world! What had I done to deserve such a great man?! :) hehe, i guess Jesus must had heard my prayers!

I promise I will cherish this relationship even more now. I will protect it with all of me. U r the source of my happiness! I LOVE U!

FEn

2007-06-11T22:52:00.000+08:00

Went Holland V to meet Joey for dinner today. First time I see her in skirt! hehe according to her, her new workplace requires her to be in skirts. hehe she looks so lady! nice!

We had a long chat about work, life and wedding. hehe she is as funny as before. Joey is my senior in deloitte. She is one senior whom i am closest to. I m really thankful for knowing her since my first engagement in tyco when i first joined dt. she taught me lots of thing, both gd and bad things. haha.. she is someone fun to click with. I like her a lot. Quite gd to have a big sister like her, very fun and mature and someone who always tells me her secrets.. hehe a cute ger.

One bad thing about her is she always likes to treat me and refuse to let me pay for the dinner. Our dinner tonight at sushi teh is no exception. Hai.. so pai say, but she always insisted to pay. Girl, let me treat u when I get my first pay at my new job k?! I wan to thank u for everything! U had treated me like countless times! rem those days we on job together, u bought mac breakfast for me and refuse to let me pay?? U think u very rich ah?? wahahah..

Lilis called me up yesterday and complained to me bout her job. hai.. made me recall my days in deloitte, the endless nights of OT and sufferings.. the "no appetite" days.. hai... this is life. Lilis, jia you k? thou i cant help much, but u can always call me like u always do. hehe .. Miss u girls!

Dunno how my work is like in the future. Of course, i would love to stay in my new job comfortably as long as possible. I hope i can make it my career there. I pray that all will go well..

Fen

My Jobless day

2007-06-07T00:16:00.000+08:00

I am jobless.. waiting waiting, waiting for my job to start. Nervous, excited, scared I am not competent and capable enough.

Went to extract my wisdom teeth today, at my right side, one upper and one bottom. They refused to come out. The dentist commented that my mouth too small..hard to pull out. Haha, i doubt her capability. Slept and rested for the rest of the day.

Today, spent the whole day spring cleaning my room. I threw 4 big bags of rubbish! ahahah my mum said i always got so many things to throw away whenever I clean up my room. Wahahah..I dunno why?

Anywae, tomorrow,going to do my medical check up before meeting xinrong for lunch.. gotta be a long day, cos going cg at night.

Darling going away for 2 days sailing. Poor darling, keep saying dun wan to work anymore. hehe ok la.. i shall buy u out n keep u as my mistress! wahahah

Darling, dun b dishearterned k. I m v proud of u, really! I support whatever u do!! Take this as a learning opportunity. It may be tough. But it's just a learning process. I believe u can do it! Trust urself k? Dun worry bout me being lonely. I am a very independent ger.. hehe n i gt many gd frens around me! So dun worry k. I will take v gd care of myself...:)

Darling is so nice.. takes care of me very well, just bought bird nest for me after I stopped him many many mths ago.. hehe I feel so wasted to eat them cos I eat other junk food which defeated the purpose of bird nest. But Darling still insist to buy for me to build up my immune system and prevent my cough..I am so grateful for him. He's my GUARDIAN ANGEL! I love u Darling!!U're forever so sweet! I will love u no matter what, regardless of the fact that I can sing better than u now! wahahah!!!

Love you!

Fen

I am thankful

2007-06-04T22:40:00.000+08:00

JUst feel the urge to thank God for all the things that I had come to pass in my life. I had come so far, with Jesus, nothing is impossible.

I am thankful for my family. For every single member. We accepted one another's difference. I am thankful for my family.

I am thankful for my career, on how God had opened doors of opportunity for me, on how God showed me His Way.

I am thankful for the friends that I had. Each of them teaches me a thing. They add so much joy to my life. I love u all of u!

I am thankful for Darling- For hhim to appear in my life and make my life complete. I love u darling!

Fen

The Next Big Step!

2007-06-04T22:29:00.000+08:00

My Dear Dear just quitted job last friday an I must really congratulate her on a more than 50% increment! :> Haha! A greener pasture definitely, in my humble opinion. I must say that there's more career opportunity with an international bank, so, my Dear Dear's gonna be a great career woman!

Dear Dear's gonna miss the many many friends at DT though. But Dear Dear, Singapore is so small, I believe that it'll be easy to meet up anytime. You're gonna meet more friends in your new work place k?
I also pray that Dear Dear would take the 2 weeks of rest to really prepare for the upcoming challenge in your new job. DO take care and go for your "beautification" k? You'll alway have my support!! ;>

KG